Games For Grownups

I’m all for keeping your inner child alive and going retro and whatnot. Organized sports are fun, too. But Wednesday night Tag on the Plaza seems a little silly to me.

KANSAS CITY, Mo. — On a moonlit night on the Country Club Plaza in Kansas City, a slender young woman darted in the dark just south of the J.C. Nichols Fountain. Other players moved away from her like polarized magnets, running in circles and at right angles.

They were the hunted, she the huntress.

Creeping like a tiger, she spied her prey. Zooming left, she thrust out her arm.

A lunge. A swipe.

A touch on the shoulder.

There’s nothing unusual about children playing tag. What was unusual is that the child in this game was 23 years old, and many of her playmates hadn’t been kids for decades. Tag for adults? Why not?

In May, Kate Schurman, a Kansas City law office manager, founded the Tag Institute, a grown-up group of tag enthusiasts who get together at 7 p.m. every Wednesday on the Plaza to chase each other silly….

“There have been times when I’ve really had a rough day and I’ve had to make myself come to tag,” said Susan Schurman, 52. “And it really works. It changes my whole attitude.”

Not a natural athlete, Kate Schurman (pronounced SKER-min) was never much for traditional sports. Like most people, she enjoyed playing tag as a child. But when she grew up, she stopped playing. Everyone did.

The more she thought about it, though, the more it bothered her. Tag was fun, good exercise and a wonderful way to meet people and make new friends. Why did it have to go away just because she became an adult? Then it came to her: It didn’t.

Schurman decided not to be bound by convention. She didn’t care how old she was. She didn’t care what people might think. She was going to play tag on the Plaza.

She called her sister Elizabeth and her mother.

“You’re coming,” she told them. “‘Cause I can’t play by myself.”

She called friends, talked to neighbors, put up fliers in coffee houses and placed a notice in the newspaper’s calendar section. She even drew arrows with sidewalk chalk pointing the way to the game and pulled strangers off the street….

Adults playing kids’ games? What does it mean?

It’s simple, said James Twitchell, a pop culture expert from the University of Florida. Increasingly, people have isolated themselves the past several decades. This is an indication that the pendulum has now started to swing back the other way.

“We’re not together like we used to be,” he said. “What do you blame it on, the automobile, the television, the computer? It doesn’t matter. To me, this is a celebration of what we’ve lost and are trying to get back — namely, a sense of community….”

For Schurman and her friends, tag fills the void.

Let’s puff it up just a little more. It’s a game. It’s not like she overcame paraplegia to play or it’s the Next Big Thing in the urban tribe era. It’s fun and a neat idea, just the article itself sounds really really stupid.

  • http://people.albion.edu/krc10/ krista.

    I think I would be absolutely freakin’ giddy if someone decided to have a gigantic adult game of Red Rover somewhere. How much fun would that be?

  • http://www.swirlspice.com Erica

    When I was in college, we used to play this game called Buckbuck.

    Your team would line up one behind another, then everyone would grab the person in front of them by the waist and bend over. So basically you’ve got this daisy chain of people about waist-high.

    Members of the opposing team would run and belly flop on top of the wall of people, each member piling on top of the others. If the wall broke or collapsed, the jumping team scored a point. If the wall maintained, the wall team scored a point.

    That shit hurt like hell, but it was fun.

  • http://people.albion.edu/krc10/ krista.

    It sounds like fun! I remember someone trying to organize a game of Red Rover on the Quad at Albion my freshman year (I had something to go to), and no one showed up. No one ever bothered to try again. Sigh. Such is life among the apathetic. It would be neat to try something gamey for a change. :)

  • http://fridayfishwrap.com MJ

    I’m all for adults playing kids games. That rocks. When we have pool parties here we tend to make up our own games. I’ll start a non-consensual game of dodge ball (i.e. oops did I just smack your head really hard with that ball? heh – sorry!) which after several beers will evolve into “get the ball through the legs of the floating patio chair.” But if anyone starts Marco Polo they risk severe bodily harm. My pool my rules. Oh and water ballon fights. Now that’s good clean fun right there.